Dangerous!

ISSUES

So, my roommate is mad at me because during final crits, on a day that she was absent but made it clear to me that she didn’t care, I announced her feelings in front of a few people. Word got back to her, and she’s been ignoring me for about a week.

The problem is, I stand behind being pissed about it. Also, how can I apologize to someone who has called me selfish, said she resented me, and guilt-tripped me several times because I don’t work full time like she does? And who also tried to make it seem like rescuing a cat was a bad idea even though he would have died without me, basically because I didn’t ask permission before bringing him over. And who also covered the apartment with paintings about vaginas and her own naked body without asking. It pretty much feels like she owns the apartment and I’m renting from her. Many of the comments she’s made to me were previously swept under the rug, so to speak, but I can’t forget all the times she’s made me feel shitty, whether it was intentional or not.

I can’t go another 7 months feeling awkward and pissy about this. I’m literally so afraid of confrontation that I hole myself up in my bedroom all day and haven’t entered the kitchen in a week because I’m paranoid there will be passive aggressive notes written on the fridge. So, what should I do?